If you let love go, and it returns, it belongs to you . . . .Before you can begin to think about how to get your ex back, and saving the relationship between you and your lover, you first have to sort out the problems, and figure out what you can do to repair it.First, to get back together with your mate, you have to take a hard look at yourself, and think about the feelings and emotions that were present. The feelings and emotions are, being angry, being depressed, lack of self confidence and finally, confusion. Also, you need to deal with the temporary relief that your partner is no longer in your life, at least, right now.Next, if you want your partner back, you must think about what happened while you were together. Right now, you may want to think of why the breakup happened. Try to sort out the reasons, and then, think about what the two of you talked about that could have created friction between the two of you..After you have done the first two steps above, you are ready to try to get your ex back.
Now is the time to work on the problems that you and your lover had during the relationship. Right now, don't go near your ex yet, and reinforce the old saying, "Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder". By doing this, all of the ill feeling will all but go away. Also, during this brief period, you will learn to control your emotions, change your ways, think more of yourself, and work on your best qualities that are going to make this relationship stronger when the time is right. This will help you to remember how beautiful your relationship was in the beginning. After you have had time to think about all of this, it is time to start thinking about how to get your ex back.Now you are ready to re-introduce yourself to your ex. You will definitely want to make a good first impression. Try to look like a model. If you go all the way, it may destroy everything.
How you conduct yourself, and the impression you make will determine whether or not you are to have a second meeting with your ex.After breaking up, you want to refrain from certain actions.. Don't be an ego maniac. Don't be a controlling person, the always agreeable person, or the revengeful type. You want your lover back. Don't blow it. Will the same thing happen again? Are you getting along better than before? Are there differences that can be resolved? Is the relationship better than before? How can the same thing be prevented from happening again? These are questions that will be answered.This is not so cut and dry. To re-gain your happiness, you need to approach this with caution. Every moment you don't take action, you could be missing out on the life you could have had.If you want him, or her back, go for it.