Valentine's Day is a festival that cheers love and romance. The festival comes on February 14 every year and is celebrated in several countries across the world including US, UK, Canada, Japan, France, China and India In present times, Valentine's Day has its own significance and global flavor and is celebrated by people of all ages.Valentine's Day Parties and CelebrationsThe most popular way of celebrating Valentine's Day is to go for a romantic date with soul mate. Valentine's Day special parties are also organized by hotels and disco club to give the lovers an opportunity to celebrate. These days, show your romantic view on this day is extremely popular way of celebrating Valentine's Day.Valentines Day GiftSelecting that perfect and surprised Valentines Day Gifts for women can be quite a challenging task. This is because most women are extremely sensitive in nature and will put in hours thinking what they might receive as a Valentine's Day Gift from you.
However, selection of Valentines Day gift for her can become easy if you keep little details in mind. For instance, if you are buying clothes or bags for her keep in consideration her favorite color.Valentines Day DatingGoing for a date with your soul mate is the most popular way of celebrating Valentine's Day festival. In case you are looking for perfect Valentine's Day dating idea, here are some tips and innovative idea with the help of these you can make a perfect dating.Go out side for PicnicsThe great Valentine's Day dating idea would be to go for picnic at your favorite spot. Plan out activities you can enjoy in that spot. Places with a river and boating facility are an ideal picnic spot for romantic dates.Movie and candle light dinnerThis is an ideal and all time favorite Valentines Day dating idea with your sweet heart.
One thing keep in mind that the candle you use on that night should be aroma candle because it create a romantic environment. You can also arrange this diner at your home and try something new on this Valentines Day. You can try to cook food together in case you need some tips then you can go through a recipe book.Take a tour of your cityOn Valentines Day you may plan a tour of your city with your soul mate. You may show each other your favorite place where you grew up like school, college or office. This will help you to remember all old lovable memories.
Don't be fooled by this whole New Age crap that tells you that you have to give in order to receive. You may think that it is very noble to give your money and possessions away. But you will go bankrupt before you ever get a thank you from any one of your receivers. The whole obsession with attracting abundance into your life is a fallacy. People just say that to sell books and to fill seats in workshops and conference centers. Most of us are never going to have an abundance of money. Because abundance is not really about money, it's about love. Sadly, our approach to love is the same as our approach to money. We just can't get enough of it.Let's face it. We live in a world where there's limited resources. As far as I can tell, it's always been that way. It started with the barter system, where everything was based on a trade. People traded crops for services and services for crops.
However, the barter system got a little complicated, when people's services or crops were no longer needed. Then, someone came up with the brilliant idea to create money, a currency system that enabled people to buy whatever they wanted. People started to provide their services and products for money.Now, people can't get the barter system out of their heads. When they go out and buy something. They want to get the best deal possible. They are looking for a bargain, a steal; the best deal money can buy. Why do people behave like this? Because they understand that resources are scarce and they have to get their money to stretch as far as possible.Similarly, people have this same approach when it comes to love and relationships. They treat love like it's a currency. They will give love, only when they know they are going to get love in return. We treat love as if it's a currency, or some kind of stock option that we can lose money on.
Then, we are disappointed when the people we love don't do what we say, or don't behave the way we would have liked them to behave. We treat love like it is some kind of investment. When it starts to tank. We want to toss away our love like it was some kind of cheap knock-off bag.Our loneliness is a result of our conditioning; we are reared to believe that love is scarce. It is something that we have to work for, or something that we have to earn. So we go through life, writing '"love checks" mistakenly believing that other people are going to meet our needs. We do things to please other people; we make so many sacrifices just to feel loved. But love is not a sell-out. It cannot be brought or sold. Love is the only resource that is unlimited. The only thing that we have in abundance is love.However, we create a lot of problems when we feel that love has to be rationed, when we put all these conditions on love. Loving with certain expectations is the wrong way to love. Why? Because 99.9% of the time you are going to be disappointed.
The truth of the matter is that no one will ever be able to meet your needs better than you. No one can love you better than you. Once you understand this, you understand your richness, your wealth, and your value in life.Then you can become fearless. You are able to rip the chains off your heart. And you can write those "love checks" as if you have billions of dollars in the bank. You will never be afraid of taking a loss. Because you are never at a loss when it comes to love. This is why people say that its better to give than to receive.
Do you take the initiative to go and get what you want? Or do you find yourself reacting to people and situations? Perhaps you have been conditioned to please others, or never received encouragement to take risks. Maybe you're a person who feels powerless about influencing your outcomes so you let other people in your life make all the choices. You may be so afraid of failure that you don't even try.There is a better way :Be the chooser. When you become the chooser something amazing happens in your life: you take initiative and responsibility for your outcomes. You are in charge of creating what you want in your life. You literally move from the passenger seat to the driver's seat in the vehicle that is your life. Think about what that means.Being a chooser will help you to see your life from the inside out.
In other words, you create the life experiences based on your criteria for living a fulfilling life. It is not about being selfish - it is about being self-Full. You are not driven by other people's opinions, expectations or wants. You have a clear vision for your life and relationship and you are not willing to compromise for less than you deserve. Why would you?There is a story you may have heard from the 1001 Arabian Tales, where a King married and then killed his new bride every night. Scheherazade, his last bride stayed alive by recounting stories. One of those stories is about a prince who was in search of his perfect bride. He had his craftsmen build a doorway with the silhouette outline of his perfect woman.All the single females of the kingdom were required to pass through the door. As you can imagine, some were too tall and had to stoop to pass under the doorway. Others were too thin; some were too wide and had to pass through the doorway sideways. The point is, thousands of women passes through the door until one day a woman stood there with no gaps fit perfectly into the mold he had created for his perfect mate.
The lesson is a profound one for singles who have a clear understanding of their relationship requirements and needs. When you take the time to figure out the attributes of your ideal partner and ideal relationship, you can build your own mold. When you someone doesn't fit your mold, why would you feel upset? You wouldn't- because you are a chooser!As a chooser you also realize that the person you wish to attract will want to be with you and will love you because of who you are - not in spite of it. The more you are authentically you, the more you drive your life, based on where you want it to go, the easier it will be for the love of your life to find and connect with you. So, be the chooser!